Last edition we started with the article concerning the evil of the tongue, particularly that of mocking other people. We gave an example of what mocking of other people means from the story of one of the companions of the Prophet [peace and blessings be upon him]. We also mentioned why people insult others. Insha AIlaah, this edition we conclude this article by looking at the seven cures for this deadly disease as presented by Muhammad AsShareef in one of his khutbah.
Cure for a mocking tongue
One: We should know that it is a major sin. In fact, a person may make a single statement, not paying any heed to it, by which he may slip in to Hellfire.
Two: We should follow what our tongues are saying and not allow ourselves to stoop to vain talk.
Three: We should distance ourselves from those long useless gatherings where nothing is done for hours except laughing and chatting. Instead, we should replace our gatherings with the remembrance of Allaah and good speech.
Four: We must glorify this Deen and make enormous in our hearts the commandments of Allaah. If Allaah says do not make fun of one another, our reply should be nothing more than: we hear and we obey.
Five: We should warn others of the sin of insulting other people and making fun of them. Let us not allow ourselves to be as a silent Shaytaan listening to others being insulted. Let us speak up and say it clearly that this is not something loved by Allah and His Messenger. Say that if Allaah and His Messenger hate it, then so do I.
Six: If you feel yourself that you just have to insult someone, ask Allah to protect you from the Shaytaan and this satanic act. As Allaah taala says: "And if an evil suggestion comes to you from Shaytan, then seek refuge in Allaah. Indeed, He is Hearing and Knowing (Q7:200).
Seven: And of course, if anyone of us should fall into this sin, we should be swift in turning back to Allaah in repentance. Say Astaghfirullaah wa atoobo ilayh [0 Allah I ask You to forgive me and I return to You]. Allah says; "And whoever does not repent then it is those who are the Dhaalimoon (the wrongdoers). (Q49:11)
This article was culled from the publications of Deen Communication Limited